Dating help

Do you want dating help?

Do you need some tips, advice or help on dating women?

Want to know:

• What to say when you see a girl you fancy
• How to get her phone number
• The methods to engage her in conversation and make her fancy you.

Whatever it is you want help with, Charlie and I are only an email away.

Think of us as your dating friends.

The guys that will help you get the woman of your dreams.

Right now!

So if we can help, simply send an email describing what advice you need and we’ll endeavour to answer.

As long as you don’t mind we’ll share the subject (but not your name, so you’ll remain anonymous) with others so that we can all work together to get the girl of our dreams.

Send an email to: callum@tipsfordating.co.uk and let me know what specific areas of advice you’re looking for.



Example

Here’s a recent example and it’s relevant to all of us:

“Callum. I have recently been on some dates with a girl. We got on reasonably well and have seen each other on a total of three separate occasions. However, whilst I find her company fun I am not particularly attracted to her and am unsure how to let her know this without upsetting her. Your advice would be appreciated.”
George, Newcastle.

Hey George I feel your pain.

You sound like a cool guy who’s sincere and thoughtful. It’s always a difficult thing to let someone know that you don’t want to see them again.

However there is a right way to do it.

Before I tell you though consider a few points:

1. The longer you delay telling her, the harder it will be for you and for her.
2. Not telling her, won’t make the problem go away.

Sometimes it seems like the best solution is to say nothing and hope she ‘get’s the message.’

Well, eventually she will, but it’s going to be painful for her and leave her with many unanswered questions.

The best policy is to be upfront and say some nice things as well as some honest things.

In my years of sports training we called this the Big Mac approach.

Where the bun of a Big Mac is positive feedback and the burger is constructive feedback.

So start with the bun, then the burger and finish with the bun.

Positive – constructive – positive.

Say to her something like:

“Hey I really enjoy your company. We get on well and seeing you has been terrific fun.”

“I have to be honest though. I’m not quite feeling ‘it’ in this relationship. And I thought it would be best to be honest and upfront with you.”

“You’re a great looking girl though and our dates have been incredible fun.”

This way it’s clear that you’re not getting what you want out of the relationship and that it’s gone the distance.

If she’s unsure what you mean she may ask “Does that mean it’s over?” and the simple answer is “Yes it does.”

Most women will be fine with this approach, especially after only a few dates.

Remember being honest and upfront early is the best policy.

That way you have cleared the air and you’re both free to pursue the lives and relationships that you both want and deserve.

I’m glad we can be of help.
Callum