Monday, July 12, 2010

Winning ladies with internet dating emails

Fact

Did you know that 95% of men make the same mistakes when it comes to writing emails to girls on Online Dating sites?

The emails that they write get deleted in 80% of the cases. 10% get a polite “Thanks but I don't think we're compatible” and the other 10% get no response and then they are removed later.

Have you ever sent emails to women online, only to have no reply?


Reason

There are numerous things to understand about women that are totally different men and there isn’t time to go through all of them here...but....

I am going to share with you one tip in a moment.....but before I do let’s discuss a bit of theory:

Firstly, men are a notoriously ‘visual’ species.

The first thing we do is look at pictures of women and decide whether we think they are potential girlfriend material.

Regardless of whether they are on the same intellectual wavelength, have similar interests, goals and aspirations. It’s simple.


If she looks ‘Hot’ she’s going to get an email.

Now how many emails do you think ‘Hot’ women on a dating site get every day?

Yeah therein is the problem!

They get HUNDREDS!

And 95% of those emails have one line sentences such as:

“Hi how are you today?”

Or

“Wow, you look gorgeous, fancy a chat?”

Or even worse some guys offer their phone number:

"Hey gorgeous, I can't believe you're on a dating site, call me on 07******** and let's chat!"


Outcome

And guess what?

All of the women receiving these emails delete them instantly and mutter comments like; “Go away loser!” or “Oh my god how boring are you!"

Indeed many guys think that if they send 10 of these one line emails then they’re bound to ‘get lucky’ eventually and someone will reply.

Hey they might!

And in fact if you walk across the M25 with a bucket on your head, you might make it to the other side without getting run over!

But all of the guys that have downloaded our course and practice the methods we coach don’t ‘Get lucky’ they get RESULTS.

They know what to write in an email to get replies. They know how to turn a few emails into a phone number exchange.

They know how to turn that into a date.

And a date into a second date.....and you know the rest!

In fact a recent convert signed up on Match and with 2 weeks had to pull his profile because he couldn’t cope with the number of women who wanted to meet him. His diary is full for the next 2 weeks with potential dates!


The secret

There are several KEY SECRETS to being successful with online dating and I’m going to share one of them with you today.

Yes I’m going to give you a HOT tip that normally we’d keep back until you’d signed up for the course. But today, I’m going to provide it as a way of saying “Well done for taking steps to improve your success with women!”

So here it is:


Personalise the email

We talked about the fact that most men look at the pictures. Go ahead and do that, but then take some time to read their profile and look for something that you can use to create a ‘hook!’

A ‘hook’ is something that get’s their attention. Something that makes them want to respond.

Let me give you an example.

Their profile may have some great personal information like:

"My favourite summer destination is Greece. I love the lifestyle and climate."

Or

"I love to play tennis in my spare time and read history."

Also profiles will tell you what they do for work and what their star sign is, let’s say she’s a Scorpio.

All of this is great material to work with.

So in your email you can personalise this and create a ‘hook.’

As an example here’s what you could write:

"Is it true what they say about the secret trait that Scorpio’s have? The one they never reveal?"

Or

“Have you been to that secret part of Greece that they never tell you about in the brochure?”

These are hooks.

They grab their attention and 'invite' them to respond. If it's got some INTRIGUE then youre success rate will leap!

You need to write more in your email, but if you use these in the opening lines then you’re instantly creating a ‘hook’ that will make them want to know the answer.

It also means you’re not in the 95% category.

Instead you’re in the 5% category of men whos emails will be read.

If you then get the rest of your email right. Have a well constructed profile that follows our ‘Golden rules’ then you’re going to get some positive replies.

You can do this and have the RELATIONSHIP you WANT with the WOMAN you WANT by learning the techniques that we teach in the SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™.

And this UNIQUE 7 part course is available for you today.

Good luck and let me know how you get on with your emails.

Callum

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