"Charlie/Callum – PLEASE HELP!”
“I can’t find anything in common with this girl and I really like her. We’ve been on a couple of dates (followed your advise about the first 2 meetings), but can’t seem to find anything in common. Should I make something up?”
“I think I’ve made a good impression, but our interests just don’t match. I’m seeing her in a couple of days for a drink, immediate advice would be great.”
David – Middlesex
Hi David
Don’t panic, you’ve done the hard part – a girl you like has agreed to met you (and on multiple occasions). The big question you’re asking is “does a couple have to have interests/hobbies in common to go the distance?”
Answer – “NO”
Why? - Attraction has nothing to do with how much you have in common with another person.
It does make it easier to start conversations and meet people. For example if you’re both into Morris Dancing I’m guessing you’ll always attend the same functions and you have something that you are both passionate about and can discuss.
However, I’ve seen lots of relationships fall apart because they were built on a common interest because further down the road that is still the only commonality.
Everyone has heard the phrase “Opposites attract?”
It’s absolutely true.
The KEY thing to remember in the early stages of a relationship that it’s all about ATTRACTION.
Everything else is IRRELEVANT!
AND, if you aren’t ATTRACTIVE to the woman she’s not going to DATE you regardless of whether you have loads in common or not.
In our course we teach you HOW to CREATE that attraction.
We coach you in the SKILLS you need to be a MAGNET to women!
It’s all here: The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™.
Why chase women – if you attract them, then they’ll come to you!
Good luck David
Callum
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Why guys always screw-up!
The scenario
I was chatting to a girl in the office a few days ago....
She does internet dating and was explaining to her friends how it all works.
The conversation got onto a ‘hot prospect’ that she was supposedly going to meet up with but how she’d decided to ‘bail out’ as she had some doubts and didn’t have the same feelings for the guy.
My eyes lit up as I grasped the relevance of this and how it would be useful to share with our email subscribers.....so here goes:
Apparently they’d been emailing for a while which had progressed to instant messaging on MSN and a few phone calls and text messages.
He was a music producer.
Wow! Cool job!
So I asked her why she wasn’t going to see him. Her answer went like this:
“I just don’t feel the same for him. Perhaps I’m too fussy. At first I really liked him and thought it would be great to meet as we seemed so alike. I was really optimistic.”
I asked her what changed....
“Well he just became a bit too ‘full on.’ He’d text me every morning with a “Hi gorgeous” message. And he’d text me all the time.”
She then went on to say:
“So I told him I didn’t want to meet up. I wanted to cool it for a while. He said he’d fallen for me, big time and really thought we had a future together.”
When a woman says she wants to ‘cool it for a while’ you’re history!!
History
And this guy is history. He didn’t even get a first date.
My friend thinks she’s too fussy.
Guess what?
The guy screwed up!
MASSIVELY!
Never, never, never reveal your true feelings for a woman at such an early stage.
It’s 100% guaranteed to KILL the attraction she feels for you.
There are numerous reasons and detail behind the why and I’m going to touch on 3:
Fact 1:
Too soon.
First off it’s too early.
You may see someone and engage in conversation and think to yourself “Wow this girl is amazing I think I could marry her!”
She may also be thinking something like “I like this guy, he’s fun, cute and sexy. I hope this goes somewhere.”
But the moment you come on so strong you’re killing the mystery, the intrigue, the differentiator and other thing that make you attractive. In fact you’ve become a lame, boring, dull and typical guy!
So chill out!
Take your time. Act aloof.
Fact 2:
In this case my friend has been living by herself for 3 years.
Living by yourself has some advantages. You can be a ‘free spirit’. You can choose what you want to do and when you want to do it. You can live like a slob or live in a ‘showhome!’ The point is the choice is yours.
The moment you come on strong, her subconscious is going to start ringing alarm bells, saying “Change! Change! Change!”
People don’t like change. So avoid this but not breaking the status quo.
Fact 3:
She got to miss you.
Guys that text every hour of the day, come across as needy, desperate and generally a proper wet rag!
I doubt you’re any of those, but that is how it appears.
Would a really hot guy who had the pick of numerous women really text every hour?
No, he’d be hard to get hold of, difficult to pin down and the women would be chasing him.
So don’t text every hour and never write ‘needy’ messages.
If you write “Hi gorgeous” then you owe me a case of beer!!
Instead write:
“Hey I know you’re missing me like crazy, so I wanted to give you a little taster of me! Have fun! X”
A text like that say’s you’re confident about yourself. You’re not needy. You’re not trying to change her life and move in with her. It also sub-consciously makes her feel you’re different, calm, confident and slightly aloof.
This is a tiny fraction of what we coach in The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™.
If you want to perfect the ART of ATTRACTING women.
Want to know the SECRETS on how to attract women? Sign up to the FREE coaching email, full of dating tips for men and get a FREE guide on Why Most Dates Fail.
Good luck out there.
Callum
I was chatting to a girl in the office a few days ago....
She does internet dating and was explaining to her friends how it all works.
The conversation got onto a ‘hot prospect’ that she was supposedly going to meet up with but how she’d decided to ‘bail out’ as she had some doubts and didn’t have the same feelings for the guy.
My eyes lit up as I grasped the relevance of this and how it would be useful to share with our email subscribers.....so here goes:
Apparently they’d been emailing for a while which had progressed to instant messaging on MSN and a few phone calls and text messages.
He was a music producer.
Wow! Cool job!
So I asked her why she wasn’t going to see him. Her answer went like this:
“I just don’t feel the same for him. Perhaps I’m too fussy. At first I really liked him and thought it would be great to meet as we seemed so alike. I was really optimistic.”
I asked her what changed....
“Well he just became a bit too ‘full on.’ He’d text me every morning with a “Hi gorgeous” message. And he’d text me all the time.”
She then went on to say:
“So I told him I didn’t want to meet up. I wanted to cool it for a while. He said he’d fallen for me, big time and really thought we had a future together.”
When a woman says she wants to ‘cool it for a while’ you’re history!!
History
And this guy is history. He didn’t even get a first date.
My friend thinks she’s too fussy.
Guess what?
The guy screwed up!
MASSIVELY!
Never, never, never reveal your true feelings for a woman at such an early stage.
It’s 100% guaranteed to KILL the attraction she feels for you.
There are numerous reasons and detail behind the why and I’m going to touch on 3:
Fact 1:
Too soon.
First off it’s too early.
You may see someone and engage in conversation and think to yourself “Wow this girl is amazing I think I could marry her!”
She may also be thinking something like “I like this guy, he’s fun, cute and sexy. I hope this goes somewhere.”
But the moment you come on so strong you’re killing the mystery, the intrigue, the differentiator and other thing that make you attractive. In fact you’ve become a lame, boring, dull and typical guy!
So chill out!
Take your time. Act aloof.
Fact 2:
In this case my friend has been living by herself for 3 years.
Living by yourself has some advantages. You can be a ‘free spirit’. You can choose what you want to do and when you want to do it. You can live like a slob or live in a ‘showhome!’ The point is the choice is yours.
The moment you come on strong, her subconscious is going to start ringing alarm bells, saying “Change! Change! Change!”
People don’t like change. So avoid this but not breaking the status quo.
Fact 3:
She got to miss you.
Guys that text every hour of the day, come across as needy, desperate and generally a proper wet rag!
I doubt you’re any of those, but that is how it appears.
Would a really hot guy who had the pick of numerous women really text every hour?
No, he’d be hard to get hold of, difficult to pin down and the women would be chasing him.
So don’t text every hour and never write ‘needy’ messages.
If you write “Hi gorgeous” then you owe me a case of beer!!
Instead write:
“Hey I know you’re missing me like crazy, so I wanted to give you a little taster of me! Have fun! X”
A text like that say’s you’re confident about yourself. You’re not needy. You’re not trying to change her life and move in with her. It also sub-consciously makes her feel you’re different, calm, confident and slightly aloof.
This is a tiny fraction of what we coach in The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™.
If you want to perfect the ART of ATTRACTING women.
Want to know the SECRETS on how to attract women? Sign up to the FREE coaching email, full of dating tips for men and get a FREE guide on Why Most Dates Fail.
Good luck out there.
Callum
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Are you a bunny boiler?
A while ago we had an email from Simon:
“Hey guys I could use some help here! I’ve been on several dates recently and after the second date the girls always seem to lose interest. I’ve been cool and charming (I think) and have we’ve got close and personal with the conversations. Even to the point where we’ve been discussing long term plans around family and kids. Yet in each case they have gone cold on me after 2 or 3 dates. Help!”
We’ve also had a few emails from guys who want to know how to get closer to a woman that they’ve met for a few times.
I’ll give an example:
You’ve been out on a couple of dates, shared a few kisses and embraces; but haven’t made the move to the bedroom. So the question is how do you cross that divide?
First it’s worth making sure you’re not a male bunny boiler (BB).
Some of the emails for advice we get have some BB qualities to them; for example sending endless texts, and sending texts immediately after receiving one.
By The way we look further into how to pace your communication in the course The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™ if you haven’t downloaded it yet then I would do it now.
So take this test to find out if you’re on the verge of becoming a BB:
Imagine you’ve met a woman 2 times, now answer the following questions:
Have you discussed how many kids you’d like?
Have you suggested meeting your or their parents?
Have you asked her if she’s in contact with or meeting anyone else?
If you’ve answered “yes” to any of these you’re sailing way too close to the wind.
You have to remember that what most women put on their internet profiles or tell you what they like in a man is what they ULTIMATELY want. It’s want they want in the long term
But it’s not what they will find ATTRACTIVE.
ATTRACTION isn’t something that can be switched on of off like a lightbulb!
Women are either attracted to your or they’re not!
And if they are NOT attracted to you in the initial meeting then the chances of them ever being attracted to you are almost ZERO!
What we COACH is how to create that ATTRACTION.
How to ENSURE that women find you incredibly ATTRACTIVE right from the ‘off!’
Down load the programme its risk free and it’ll change your life!
But if you have turned into some sort of Bunny Boiler why not try the Tips For Dating - Bunny Boiler Stew:
2 pet rabbits, skinned and jointed
250g Bacon cut into small pieces
1 tbsp olive oil
1 large onion, thickly sliced
3 large carrots,
1 leek
2 bay leaves
500ml dry cider
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
1. Heat the oil in a pan and add the bacon, onions and pet rabbits, heat until brown. Then transfer the meat into a casserole dish or similar
2. Add the carrots, leek and bay leaves
3. Finally season with salt and pepper and add the cider. Ensure the meat is covered by added water
4. Place casserole in a pre heated oven at 130oc (ensure lid is on) for 90 minutes – although older pets will take longer.
5. Serve with potatoes and ladle juice over it all.
I’m glad we can be of help and don't really try this at home!
Best wishes
Callum
“Hey guys I could use some help here! I’ve been on several dates recently and after the second date the girls always seem to lose interest. I’ve been cool and charming (I think) and have we’ve got close and personal with the conversations. Even to the point where we’ve been discussing long term plans around family and kids. Yet in each case they have gone cold on me after 2 or 3 dates. Help!”
We’ve also had a few emails from guys who want to know how to get closer to a woman that they’ve met for a few times.
I’ll give an example:
You’ve been out on a couple of dates, shared a few kisses and embraces; but haven’t made the move to the bedroom. So the question is how do you cross that divide?
First it’s worth making sure you’re not a male bunny boiler (BB).
Some of the emails for advice we get have some BB qualities to them; for example sending endless texts, and sending texts immediately after receiving one.
By The way we look further into how to pace your communication in the course The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™ if you haven’t downloaded it yet then I would do it now.
So take this test to find out if you’re on the verge of becoming a BB:
Imagine you’ve met a woman 2 times, now answer the following questions:
Have you discussed how many kids you’d like?
Have you suggested meeting your or their parents?
Have you asked her if she’s in contact with or meeting anyone else?
If you’ve answered “yes” to any of these you’re sailing way too close to the wind.
You have to remember that what most women put on their internet profiles or tell you what they like in a man is what they ULTIMATELY want. It’s want they want in the long term
But it’s not what they will find ATTRACTIVE.
ATTRACTION isn’t something that can be switched on of off like a lightbulb!
Women are either attracted to your or they’re not!
And if they are NOT attracted to you in the initial meeting then the chances of them ever being attracted to you are almost ZERO!
What we COACH is how to create that ATTRACTION.
How to ENSURE that women find you incredibly ATTRACTIVE right from the ‘off!’
Down load the programme its risk free and it’ll change your life!
But if you have turned into some sort of Bunny Boiler why not try the Tips For Dating - Bunny Boiler Stew:
2 pet rabbits, skinned and jointed
250g Bacon cut into small pieces
1 tbsp olive oil
1 large onion, thickly sliced
3 large carrots,
1 leek
2 bay leaves
500ml dry cider
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
1. Heat the oil in a pan and add the bacon, onions and pet rabbits, heat until brown. Then transfer the meat into a casserole dish or similar
2. Add the carrots, leek and bay leaves
3. Finally season with salt and pepper and add the cider. Ensure the meat is covered by added water
4. Place casserole in a pre heated oven at 130oc (ensure lid is on) for 90 minutes – although older pets will take longer.
5. Serve with potatoes and ladle juice over it all.
I’m glad we can be of help and don't really try this at home!
Best wishes
Callum
Hot women and Saturday nights
Hot women and Saturday nights.
Will it be another wasted Saturday night out with the boys?
I have a single friend (for the sake of this email we’ll call him Russell) he’s 36 and a self employed Accountant. He brings in a fairly large income and works very hard. It takes quite a lot of encouraging to get him to come out for a few beers – he’s always using excuses like:
“I’m too tired!”
“I’ve got a lot of work on.”
“I’ve got to meet a big client tomorrow.”
After a couple of drinks on Friday he finally admitted why he was reluctant to come out.
Russell’s story – He said the reason he was so reluctant to come out on a weekend was the frustrations he feels when he gets home, usually without even a single phone number. He feels very confident talking through the details of someone else’s business and challenges, but when it comes to approaching women in a bar he becomes a wreck! So when he wakes up in the morning following a night out he doesn’t feel relaxed after being out with some friends, he said he feels really frustrated.
Now I don’t think Russell is alone in this situation – how many of us in the last few weeks walked home with a takeaway for one, or back to a friends for a for more drinks?
What should you do?
Personally I don’t think focusing all of your efforts on finding true love should be done in your local bars and clubs, if you enjoy going to those places then it’s different. Otherwise they will only enhance your frustrations; you’ll also look like a fish out of water. You have to ask yourself – does the girl of my dreams hang around in Yates’?
SO where do you go?
Internet dating has become an easier and more efficient place to meet like minded people, but again it should be used as part of your dating strategy, you also have to bear in mind the fact that you’ll also have to make a good impression when you meet your internet date. That means you need practise getting your approaches and openers spot on.
Fit to date?
This doesn’t mean a six pack and bulging ‘guns’ – fit to date means you can have a great conversation, really make a great first impression and not appear like everyone else. For this you need practice and some professional coaching.
Practice is easy – you can walk into any public place and start talking to someone.
Coaching is also easy – book onto our 7 part course – It will cost you half as much as your last night out. But unlike your last night out, if it doesn’t improve your success rate we’ll give you your money back!
So ask yourself – do I want to keep walking home really frustrated after a fruitless night out? Or do I want the confidence to speak with attractive women?
If the answer is the latter then BOOK NOW!
It’s all here in The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™
Best wishes
Callum
Will it be another wasted Saturday night out with the boys?
I have a single friend (for the sake of this email we’ll call him Russell) he’s 36 and a self employed Accountant. He brings in a fairly large income and works very hard. It takes quite a lot of encouraging to get him to come out for a few beers – he’s always using excuses like:
“I’m too tired!”
“I’ve got a lot of work on.”
“I’ve got to meet a big client tomorrow.”
After a couple of drinks on Friday he finally admitted why he was reluctant to come out.
Russell’s story – He said the reason he was so reluctant to come out on a weekend was the frustrations he feels when he gets home, usually without even a single phone number. He feels very confident talking through the details of someone else’s business and challenges, but when it comes to approaching women in a bar he becomes a wreck! So when he wakes up in the morning following a night out he doesn’t feel relaxed after being out with some friends, he said he feels really frustrated.
Now I don’t think Russell is alone in this situation – how many of us in the last few weeks walked home with a takeaway for one, or back to a friends for a for more drinks?
What should you do?
Personally I don’t think focusing all of your efforts on finding true love should be done in your local bars and clubs, if you enjoy going to those places then it’s different. Otherwise they will only enhance your frustrations; you’ll also look like a fish out of water. You have to ask yourself – does the girl of my dreams hang around in Yates’?
SO where do you go?
Internet dating has become an easier and more efficient place to meet like minded people, but again it should be used as part of your dating strategy, you also have to bear in mind the fact that you’ll also have to make a good impression when you meet your internet date. That means you need practise getting your approaches and openers spot on.
Fit to date?
This doesn’t mean a six pack and bulging ‘guns’ – fit to date means you can have a great conversation, really make a great first impression and not appear like everyone else. For this you need practice and some professional coaching.
Practice is easy – you can walk into any public place and start talking to someone.
Coaching is also easy – book onto our 7 part course – It will cost you half as much as your last night out. But unlike your last night out, if it doesn’t improve your success rate we’ll give you your money back!
So ask yourself – do I want to keep walking home really frustrated after a fruitless night out? Or do I want the confidence to speak with attractive women?
If the answer is the latter then BOOK NOW!
It’s all here in The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™
Best wishes
Callum
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Motor Racing babes
Have you ever seen the women that hang around at motor racing circuits?
You know the ones that are there as part of the race teams. They are wearing the team livery and are there purely as ‘eye candy.’
If you ever watch the MotoGP, prior to the race starting each competitor sits on his motorbike mentally preparing for the race. Holding an umbrella over each rider is a stunningly attractive girl, with a size 8 body and a figure hugging outfit.
Most guys will gawk and think things like:
“Wow she’s hot!”
or
“God I’d like to date her.”
Equally most guys will believe that these women are to be dreamed about and never will they really date a woman like this.
You have to be a gorgeous millionaire, don’t you?
Ask yourself; do you think the same way?
At the weekend a large motorbike store in a nearby town was celebrating its birthday and was holding a 2 day event. The place was alive with people. There was lots of entertainment and plenty there for the motorcycling enthusiast.
Additionally they had a plethora of ‘hotties’ making the place look nice and handing out promotional material.
I listened as many of the bikers took the material and then confided with each other about how ‘fit’ the girls where.
Yet none of them spent any time engaged in conversation with the girls.
And the few that muttered more than half a dozen words said all the wrong things.
This is great news!
It’s great because most men do all the wrong things. They say the wrong lines and they execute the wrong actions.
And that means that people like you and I that learn and practice the right things to say and the correct action to execute get to take girls like these on dates.
I know because I dated a girl that did the MotoGP events in the UK.
And the good news is, it’s so easy!
You don’t have to be tall. You don’t have to have dark hair. You don’t have to be a millionaire and you certainly don’t have to be good looking.
But you do have to LEARN what makes these women WANT you!
And all of this we coach and teach in the SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™
If you haven’t downloaded it yet, then go and do it today.
If you’re not satisfied you can return it within 14 days for a full refund.
So there’s no risk!
Good luck out there.
Callum
Have you ever seen the women that hang around at motor racing circuits?
You know the ones that are there as part of the race teams. They are wearing the team livery and are there purely as ‘eye candy.’
If you ever watch the MotoGP, prior to the race starting each competitor sits on his motorbike mentally preparing for the race. Holding an umbrella over each rider is a stunningly attractive girl, with a size 8 body and a figure hugging outfit.
Most guys will gawk and think things like:
“Wow she’s hot!”
or
“God I’d like to date her.”
Equally most guys will believe that these women are to be dreamed about and never will they really date a woman like this.
You have to be a gorgeous millionaire, don’t you?
Ask yourself; do you think the same way?
At the weekend a large motorbike store in a nearby town was celebrating its birthday and was holding a 2 day event. The place was alive with people. There was lots of entertainment and plenty there for the motorcycling enthusiast.
Additionally they had a plethora of ‘hotties’ making the place look nice and handing out promotional material.
I listened as many of the bikers took the material and then confided with each other about how ‘fit’ the girls where.
Yet none of them spent any time engaged in conversation with the girls.
And the few that muttered more than half a dozen words said all the wrong things.
This is great news!
It’s great because most men do all the wrong things. They say the wrong lines and they execute the wrong actions.
And that means that people like you and I that learn and practice the right things to say and the correct action to execute get to take girls like these on dates.
I know because I dated a girl that did the MotoGP events in the UK.
And the good news is, it’s so easy!
You don’t have to be tall. You don’t have to have dark hair. You don’t have to be a millionaire and you certainly don’t have to be good looking.
But you do have to LEARN what makes these women WANT you!
And all of this we coach and teach in the SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™
If you haven’t downloaded it yet, then go and do it today.
If you’re not satisfied you can return it within 14 days for a full refund.
So there’s no risk!
Good luck out there.
Callum
Why are women so complex
Summer ball
On Friday I had the pleasure of attending the Wootton Bassett Rugby Club Summer Ball.
It was a great event.
A huge marquee was erected in the rugby field with tastefully decorated tunnels adjoining the clubhouse. The whole interior was given an oriental theme complete with a waterfall and dry ice machine.
The food was excellent and the price included drinks, so it was a great opportunity to eat and drink as much as you wanted to before working off those calories on the dance floor!
There was somewhere in the region of 400 people there. The women wore glamourous dresses whilst us guys had to wear the customers DJ’s.
A band kicked off after the food had been served and played through until 3am.
My lady for the ball
I had the pleasure of being invited by Chloe (a made up name as she’d never forgive me if she knew I’d written this!)
Now Chloe is about 5’5”. She has long brunette hair, dark eyes and is a size 8 pushing size 6. She is fanatical about her fitness and body and to say she’s toned is a massive understatement.
She’s simply gorgeous!
Paradox
Before we got to the event Chloe described her friend Stephanie and partner who we were meeting at the venue. She described Stephanie as being simply stunning. A 10 out of 10 in every department. She even stated that she wished she was as beautiful, as glamourous and as young looking as Stephanie.
The whole drive there I was wondering what the ‘gorgeous Stephanie’ was going to look like??
Of course I was surprised to meet Stephanie.
She was pretty. Coming in at about 5’6”, with a size 8 figure and blonde bobbed hair. She wore a red dress that I have to admit was the right colour for her and she did look beautiful.
But.
And it’s a big BUT.
She wasn’t a patch on Chloe.
Chloe was prettier. She had a better face shape. Nicer eyes. Better teeth and much fuller lips.
Chloe also looked years younger even though they are both the same age.
And too cap it all Chloe also had a better figure!
In fact of the 200+ women that were at the event I can honestly say that Chloe was in the top 3.
Yet she doesn’t believe that.
She thinks she’s overweight, old and not as pretty or as glamourus as the other women!
This is an interesting paradox that affects more women than not.
They are all mostly paranoid about their looks.
If you don’t believe me…….think about it………how many women have you ever known that say “I want to put a bit of weight on. Fill out a bit. I could do with putting on a few pounds.”
Yep exactly.
NONE!!
Every woman I’ve ever known has been on some kind of diet. They’ve all said they’d like to lose a few pounds. Get down a dress size!
Yet they all look stunning and all have the kind of figure that every man would be happy to explore.
Why
One of the reasons women are like this is because they are born with these characteristics.
They literally have an inbuilt system that says:
“Must look prettier.”
“Must lose more weight.”
And this inbuilt system also makes them incredibly competitive.
Women love to compete with each other. Hence, why they take so long to get themselves ready for a big night like a ball. They want to look stunning and want to feel like they’re better than every other woman in there!
Fact 1
Now when men look at STUNNING women they often think things like:
“Wow she’s hot. I’d love to date her!”
“Oh my god she is gorgeous. She’s way out of my league!”
“I bet her boyfriend is rich and incredibly good looking.”
But in fact the opposite is often true.
They are never ‘Out of your league’ and if you say that STOP right now.
The point here is that many of the best looking women often think they are the least pretty ones and that’s why they take even more care and trouble over their appearance.
What to do next
You simply download the SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™ and read the theory, do the exercises and go and engage in conversation with these STUNNING women.
SIMPLE.
EASY.
And it WORKS!
Enjoy the summer ball!
Callum
On Friday I had the pleasure of attending the Wootton Bassett Rugby Club Summer Ball.
It was a great event.
A huge marquee was erected in the rugby field with tastefully decorated tunnels adjoining the clubhouse. The whole interior was given an oriental theme complete with a waterfall and dry ice machine.
The food was excellent and the price included drinks, so it was a great opportunity to eat and drink as much as you wanted to before working off those calories on the dance floor!
There was somewhere in the region of 400 people there. The women wore glamourous dresses whilst us guys had to wear the customers DJ’s.
A band kicked off after the food had been served and played through until 3am.
My lady for the ball
I had the pleasure of being invited by Chloe (a made up name as she’d never forgive me if she knew I’d written this!)
Now Chloe is about 5’5”. She has long brunette hair, dark eyes and is a size 8 pushing size 6. She is fanatical about her fitness and body and to say she’s toned is a massive understatement.
She’s simply gorgeous!
Paradox
Before we got to the event Chloe described her friend Stephanie and partner who we were meeting at the venue. She described Stephanie as being simply stunning. A 10 out of 10 in every department. She even stated that she wished she was as beautiful, as glamourous and as young looking as Stephanie.
The whole drive there I was wondering what the ‘gorgeous Stephanie’ was going to look like??
Of course I was surprised to meet Stephanie.
She was pretty. Coming in at about 5’6”, with a size 8 figure and blonde bobbed hair. She wore a red dress that I have to admit was the right colour for her and she did look beautiful.
But.
And it’s a big BUT.
She wasn’t a patch on Chloe.
Chloe was prettier. She had a better face shape. Nicer eyes. Better teeth and much fuller lips.
Chloe also looked years younger even though they are both the same age.
And too cap it all Chloe also had a better figure!
In fact of the 200+ women that were at the event I can honestly say that Chloe was in the top 3.
Yet she doesn’t believe that.
She thinks she’s overweight, old and not as pretty or as glamourus as the other women!
This is an interesting paradox that affects more women than not.
They are all mostly paranoid about their looks.
If you don’t believe me…….think about it………how many women have you ever known that say “I want to put a bit of weight on. Fill out a bit. I could do with putting on a few pounds.”
Yep exactly.
NONE!!
Every woman I’ve ever known has been on some kind of diet. They’ve all said they’d like to lose a few pounds. Get down a dress size!
Yet they all look stunning and all have the kind of figure that every man would be happy to explore.
Why
One of the reasons women are like this is because they are born with these characteristics.
They literally have an inbuilt system that says:
“Must look prettier.”
“Must lose more weight.”
And this inbuilt system also makes them incredibly competitive.
Women love to compete with each other. Hence, why they take so long to get themselves ready for a big night like a ball. They want to look stunning and want to feel like they’re better than every other woman in there!
Fact 1
Now when men look at STUNNING women they often think things like:
“Wow she’s hot. I’d love to date her!”
“Oh my god she is gorgeous. She’s way out of my league!”
“I bet her boyfriend is rich and incredibly good looking.”
But in fact the opposite is often true.
They are never ‘Out of your league’ and if you say that STOP right now.
The point here is that many of the best looking women often think they are the least pretty ones and that’s why they take even more care and trouble over their appearance.
What to do next
You simply download the SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™ and read the theory, do the exercises and go and engage in conversation with these STUNNING women.
SIMPLE.
EASY.
And it WORKS!
Enjoy the summer ball!
Callum
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Why are some guys successful with women?
Experience
Let me share with you a real life experience.
Some years ago I used to play football on a Saturday for a local team in a league in Gloucestershire.
The plan was, after the game to go for a few drinks and then all meet up later in Cheltenham to go on to a nightclub.
One of the players was a guy called Gary. He was a short-arse at about 5’5” and had a completely bald head. Years with a receding hairline he’d simply decided to shave what little he had left. Gary was in the Royal Air Force and was a tough tackling midfielder.
Eye opener
It was an eye opening experience.
As a bunch of guys we did the usual thing of checking out the club upon arrival and then making a bee line for the bar.
Drink in hand we then moved around the club with a view to finding some potential ladies to strike up a conversation with.
I remember one round table having a group of 4 or 5 women all of which were stunners. None of them paid any attention to our group.
Within about a nanosecond of spotting the group Gary simply marched over to the table, sat amongst them and within seconds had engaged them in conversation. After about 3 minutes you could see them all laughing and smiling and all vying for Gary’s attention.
It was remarkable.
How had this guy, who on a scale of ‘best looking’ guys would hardly register, managed to get a bunch of gorgeous women literally begging for his attention?
7 days later
The following week we were playing at home and at the end of the match Gary’s girlfriend turned up to drive him home so he could have a few drinks in the clubhouse.
His girlfriend was simply divine. A 10 out of 10 and could have easily been a model!
The other 9 players, myself, the manager and the subs simply stared agog.
Wow!
A few years later
This was a few years ago.......and how things have changed.
I haven’t seen Gary in the time but I do know how he managed to attract such gorgeous women.
And the good news is, it’s so easy!
You don’t have to be tall. You don’t have to have dark hair. You don’t have to be a millionaire and you certainly don’t have to be good looking.
Gary had the special MAGIC that made him attractive. He had that certain something. Whether he knew he had it or not remains to be seen and I’ll probably never know.
But I know how you can get that special MAGIC.
I know how you can chat to any girl or group of girls and make them feel a powerful attraction to you.
And it doesn’t matter what you look like, what job you have, what car you drive.
It’s all in the SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™
If you want the success that Gary had.
If you want to be able to engage in conversation with a group of stunning women then you need to master the techniques that we coach.
And if you’re unsure then simply download it and if you’re not satisfied you can return it within 14 days for a full refund.
So there’s no risk!
dating tips for men and get a FREE guide on Why Most Dates Fail.
Good luck out there.Callum
Let me share with you a real life experience.
Some years ago I used to play football on a Saturday for a local team in a league in Gloucestershire.
The plan was, after the game to go for a few drinks and then all meet up later in Cheltenham to go on to a nightclub.
One of the players was a guy called Gary. He was a short-arse at about 5’5” and had a completely bald head. Years with a receding hairline he’d simply decided to shave what little he had left. Gary was in the Royal Air Force and was a tough tackling midfielder.
Eye opener
It was an eye opening experience.
As a bunch of guys we did the usual thing of checking out the club upon arrival and then making a bee line for the bar.
Drink in hand we then moved around the club with a view to finding some potential ladies to strike up a conversation with.
I remember one round table having a group of 4 or 5 women all of which were stunners. None of them paid any attention to our group.
Within about a nanosecond of spotting the group Gary simply marched over to the table, sat amongst them and within seconds had engaged them in conversation. After about 3 minutes you could see them all laughing and smiling and all vying for Gary’s attention.
It was remarkable.
How had this guy, who on a scale of ‘best looking’ guys would hardly register, managed to get a bunch of gorgeous women literally begging for his attention?
7 days later
The following week we were playing at home and at the end of the match Gary’s girlfriend turned up to drive him home so he could have a few drinks in the clubhouse.
His girlfriend was simply divine. A 10 out of 10 and could have easily been a model!
The other 9 players, myself, the manager and the subs simply stared agog.
Wow!
A few years later
This was a few years ago.......and how things have changed.
I haven’t seen Gary in the time but I do know how he managed to attract such gorgeous women.
And the good news is, it’s so easy!
You don’t have to be tall. You don’t have to have dark hair. You don’t have to be a millionaire and you certainly don’t have to be good looking.
Gary had the special MAGIC that made him attractive. He had that certain something. Whether he knew he had it or not remains to be seen and I’ll probably never know.
But I know how you can get that special MAGIC.
I know how you can chat to any girl or group of girls and make them feel a powerful attraction to you.
And it doesn’t matter what you look like, what job you have, what car you drive.
It’s all in the SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™
If you want the success that Gary had.
If you want to be able to engage in conversation with a group of stunning women then you need to master the techniques that we coach.
And if you’re unsure then simply download it and if you’re not satisfied you can return it within 14 days for a full refund.
So there’s no risk!
dating tips for men and get a FREE guide on Why Most Dates Fail.
Good luck out there.Callum
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