“Hey guys I could use some help here! I’ve been on several dates recently and after the second date the girls always seem to lose interest. I’ve been cool and charming (I think) and have we’ve got close and personal with the conversations. Even to the point where we’ve been discussing long term plans around family and kids. Yet in each case they have gone cold on me after 2 or 3 dates. Help!”
We’ve also had a few emails from guys who want to know how to get closer to a woman that they’ve met for a few times.
I’ll give an example:
You’ve been out on a couple of dates, shared a few kisses and embraces; but haven’t made the move to the bedroom. So the question is how do you cross that divide?
First it’s worth making sure you’re not a male bunny boiler (BB).
Some of the emails for advice we get have some BB qualities to them; for example sending endless texts, and sending texts immediately after receiving one.
By The way we look further into how to pace your communication in the course The SECRET ART OF ATTRACTION™ if you haven’t downloaded it yet then I would do it now.
So take this test to find out if you’re on the verge of becoming a BB:
Imagine you’ve met a woman 2 times, now answer the following questions:
Have you discussed how many kids you’d like?
Have you suggested meeting your or their parents?
Have you asked her if she’s in contact with or meeting anyone else?
If you’ve answered “yes” to any of these you’re sailing way too close to the wind.
You have to remember that what most women put on their internet profiles or tell you what they like in a man is what they ULTIMATELY want. It’s want they want in the long term
But it’s not what they will find ATTRACTIVE.
ATTRACTION isn’t something that can be switched on of off like a lightbulb!
Women are either attracted to your or they’re not!
And if they are NOT attracted to you in the initial meeting then the chances of them ever being attracted to you are almost ZERO!
What we COACH is how to create that ATTRACTION.
How to ENSURE that women find you incredibly ATTRACTIVE right from the ‘off!’
Down load the programme its risk free and it’ll change your life!
But if you have turned into some sort of Bunny Boiler why not try the Tips For Dating - Bunny Boiler Stew:
2 pet rabbits, skinned and jointed
250g Bacon cut into small pieces
1 tbsp olive oil
1 large onion, thickly sliced
3 large carrots,
1 leek
2 bay leaves
500ml dry cider
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
1. Heat the oil in a pan and add the bacon, onions and pet rabbits, heat until brown. Then transfer the meat into a casserole dish or similar
2. Add the carrots, leek and bay leaves
3. Finally season with salt and pepper and add the cider. Ensure the meat is covered by added water
4. Place casserole in a pre heated oven at 130oc (ensure lid is on) for 90 minutes – although older pets will take longer.
5. Serve with potatoes and ladle juice over it all.
I’m glad we can be of help and don't really try this at home!
Best wishes
Callum